HOW TO BE PLEASED

You know as a woman, I wonder if a man can actually please? From talking with some friends it was stated that they never had a orgasim? A woman should know what an orgasim is and especially how one feels!! So men and women, what do you think about this? Men, how can/would you please your woman and let her experience an orgasim and ladies what do you want? Have you had one? What advice would you give to a man in order for you to be pleased or the woman to tell her man?