Is it that we as women become more naive in certain instances/relationships when it comes to a MAN? Or is it that we just become so involved with the man that it's not necessarily us being naive, its just us thinking that the man we are with we LOVE?
This question can go both ways. It is not always the woman that gets so, I guess you can say,...involved, the man can to. The fact of the matter is, for both men and women at times it's just a matter of discerning some things or some people. We at times allow ourselves to get sooo caught up and quote, unquote "lost" that, that's when the term naive comes into play. Don't be one that gets so caught up in the relationship that you begin to loose yourself or all of your happiness begins to lye with that man or woman. That's when the question of Love, comes into play. Does it exist, can I & will I be happy? But, Love does exist! Love starts with God, loving yourself and then that's when things come into play. Without LOVE, Knowledge & Wisdom there is the act of being naive or being lost/loosing oneself.
So with this being stated, what is your opinion, thought or definition of all this?
I believe you have to be STRONG and courageous in yourself first...with a stable foundation in who you are, before you are honestly able to give someone your love. If you do not really know yourself, and you get involved with someone, it is possible to lose yourself and become naive...after all LOVE IS BLIND. But it doesn't have to be... when you both share the common love of GOD-his riches and his glory. God is able to open eyes to a never before seen place! People believe that once you feel yourself "getting caught up" that you can't come back from it...but you CAN. If the person you are in love with is truly worth it, they won't allow you to "lose" yourself just to be with them...they will support you being your own person and instead of discouraging this way of life, will ENCOURAGE it. Guess what, if they don't...that's NOT the person God had in store for you, so consider it OVER...then, count your blessing and move on! It'll be hard at first, but there is nobody better to take the ex's place other than God and he's probably been wanting you to spend a lil more time with him anyway!
ReplyDelete~Jay Worley 3-29-10